- Military veterans Andy Tai Ngoc Huynh, 27, and Alexander Drueke, 39, both left Alabama in April to aid Ukraine.
- They became friends in Ukraine before going missing last week during a battle near Kharkiv and are feared captured.
- Their families say the men had military training and supported their decision to volunteer, which U.S. officials have discouraged.
Andy Tai Ngoc Huynh knew he might not come back. So the 27-year-old former Marine drew up a will, said goodbye to his fiancée and left Hartselle, Alabama, in April to help Ukrainians repel Russian forces.
That same month, not far away in Tuscaloosa, former Army sergeant Alexander Drueke, a 39-year-old Iraq war veteran, had deliberated for a month before deciding to pack his gear for Ukraine.
The families of the two Alabama men – who went missing near Kharkiv in a battle last week and were feared to have been captured – told USA TODAY they are holding out hope that the men could be released if they are in the custody of Russian or Russian-backed separatist forces.
“We’re just hoping for good news,” said Huynh’s fiancée, Joy Black, 21. “He’s got such a big heart and a lot of compassion for people in need.”
Dianna Shaw, 55, Drueke’s aunt, said the U.S. State Department told the family it was working to verify a photo of the pair appearing to show them in the back of a military truck. If confirmed, they would be the first Americans fighting for Ukraine known to have been captured since the war began Feb. 24.
Shaw’s family urged the government to help bring them home. If they are in custody, “We appeal for Alex’s and Andy’s humane treatment in the meantime,” Shaw said in a text message to USA TODAY on Friday. “Coach Nick Saban always tells us Bama fans to ‘trust the process’ and that’s exactly what we are doing.”
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Last week, two Britons and a Moroccan were sentenced to death by Russian-backed separatists in eastern Ukraine. Prosecutors claimed they were mercenaries and not entitled to protections afforded prisoners of war. USA TODAY contacted the Russian Foreign Ministry for comment but has not received a reply.
Meantime, the State Department has said it was aware of reports a third American was missing in Ukraine, which the Washington Post and CNN identified as Grady Kurpasi, another Marine veteran.
It’s not known how many Americans are among the foreign fighters who have volunteered in Ukraine, something U.S. officials have discouraged.
On Friday, President Joe Biden said he’d been briefed. “We don’t know where they are, but I want to reiterate: Americans should not be going to Ukraine now. Say it again: Americans should not be going to Ukraine,” he told reporters.
Huynh and Drueke didn’t know each other in Alabama but became friends in Ukraine, according to several of their family members and loved ones, who described to USA TODAY in interviews and text messages their backgrounds and motivations.
Huynh “wasn’t trying to play soldier. He wasn’t running off looking for adventure, wanting to get into a war for excitement. He was going for compassionate reasons,” said Darla Black, 50, whose daughter is engaged to Huynh. She said he planned to help in whatever way he could be useful.
Huynh had served as a Marine from 2014 to 2018 and worked as an engineer equipment operator stationed in California, said Maj. Jim Stenger, a Marine Corps spokesperson.
Joy Black said she met Huynh online. He moved to northern Alabama after leaving the Corps, living in Hartselle, a small town not far from her home in Trinity. Both were attending Calhoun Community College – he for robotics and she for graphic design. They got engaged in March but still lived apart. “We were waiting ’till after we got married,” Black said.
After the war in Ukraine began in February, he saw images of destruction and began to feel called to help. He told a news station in April he had spent $6,000 to fund his travel. Joy Black said was scared but ultimately supported his plans.
“I’ve made peace with the decision. I know there’s a potential of me dying. I’m willing to give my life for what I believe is right. For what I’ve been taught is right, through really my eyes, Marine Corps, through God,” Huynh told a local TV News station in April, adding that his own family also ultimately accepted the decision. Huynh’s family could not be immediately reached for comment.
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Joy Black said she kept in touch with Huynh but didn’t know what unit he was with. He didn’t share where he was but would sometimes say he was hearing shelling or seeing “some very horrible thing,” she said.
It was there that he met Drueke, and they became friends.
Drueke joined the U.S. Army in the wake of 9/11, Shaw said. He served as a chemical operations specialist in the Army Reserve from September 2002 to October 2014 and deployed to Kuwait in 2004 and to Iraq in 2008, according to U.S. Army spokesperson Heather Hagan. He held the rank of staff sergeant.
After the military experience, Shaw said, Drueke found solace in hiking, kayaking and other outdoor pursuits. He was hiking the Appalachian Trail in early 2020 when it was shut down due to the COVID-19 pandemic. He moved to a family property near Tuscaloosa. After the invasion, he began to consider going to help, she said.
“He isn’t married, he doesn’t have kids, and he has the training and the experience. He felt it was his duty to help defend democracy, wherever needed,” his mother, Lois “Bunny” Drueke, said in a statement provided to USA TODAY.
He talked with his mother for a month or so before deciding to go, hoping he could help train the Ukrainian army on some of the equipment they were receiving, Shaw said. He asked his mother to care for his Mastiff rescue dog, Diesel, while he was gone.
“I remember the day he called me. Just right off the bat, he said … ‘I’m going to Ukraine,’” Shaw said. “My immediate response was: ‘For you, I understand. That’s the right thing for you to do.’”
Every four days or so, they communicated through secure app texts and a phone call.He provided few details but shared he was impressed with Ukrainian grit and determination as he was “moving from unit to unit,” Shaw said. “He just absolutely loved being there.”
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Around that same time, Drueke told his mother he was “going dark” for a couple of days. “Be careful. I love you,” his mother wrote back, Shaw recalled. “And he messaged back, ‘Yes, ma’am. I love you.’ And that was the last contact.”
Black said she began to worry when she hadn’t heard from Huynh after four days.
In the early hours of June 13, another soldier in their unit contacted the families in Alabama and said the pair hadn’t met up at a rendezvous point during an operation. Shaw said the caller said other soldiers waited and conducted a drone search.
“I have news and it’s not good,” someone nicknamed “Pip” told the Drueke family, Shaw recalled, saying person explained that they came under heavy fire during a mission and that the two men got separated and were missing.
The unit was holding a strategic position and was forced to drop back, according to a statement from the Drueke family.
In a briefing Thursday, State Department spokesman Ned Price said any third-country nationals captured should be treated as prisoners of war under the Geneva Conventions.
The Rev. Myron Mooney, pastor of Trinity Free Presbyterian Church where Huynh attends, said before he left, Huynh said that he had “an inward call from the Almighty to to go.”
Mooney told USA TODAY he worries about the prospect of him being captured. “Prisoners of war are not generally treated with tender loving care,” he said.
Still, family members said they’re proud of the motivations that led the men to travel to Ukraine. Shaw said Thursday her family is glued to the news and in touch with U.S. officials.
“We are awaiting the State Department’s confirmation. We feel very hopeful,” she said of Drueke, who turns 40 on June 24.
Joy Black said she wants Huynh back so they can marry and begin their life together.
For now, there is only waiting and hoping.
Chris Kenning is a national news writer. Reach him at ckenning@usatoday.com and on Twitter @chris_kenning.